Setting Up a Quiet Corner for Big Feelings
What it is not
A quiet corner is not where children are sent. The moment it becomes a punishment, children stop using it before they need it, which is the only time it works.
Keep it small and soft
A rug, a cushion, a low shelf, a basket of smooth stones, a book, a sand timer. No toys, no screen, nothing that makes the corner more interesting than the room.
Teach it in a calm moment
Show the corner on a good day. "This is where you can go if you want quiet." Then use it yourself once, out loud: "I am going to sit here for a minute."
Two rules only
Nothing gets thrown, and nobody is sent. Everything else, including lying on the floor, is allowed.
Stay nearby
Do not follow the child with questions. Be visible, busy with something. Most children come back out on their own within a few minutes.
Talk afterwards, not during
Once the storm has passed, name what happened in a sentence. That is the whole lesson, and it lands better over a snack than in the middle of tears.
Try it with your child
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